Serious illness can force people to take life more seriously, to question its meaning and to stop taking things for granted. Some people who have religious beliefs may find their faith greatly shaken by their cancer diagnosis. Even people who have never been regular worshippers may experience spiritual as well as emotional pain.
People often ask questions like 'Is there life after death?' and 'Why should the people I love suffer?' Unanswered questions such as these, which relate to fundamental beliefs, can cause great emotional and spiritual pain that can increase the experience of physical pain.
It is often hard to accept or understand why an illness like cancer should happen in someone's life. People often have feelings of anger and guilt, and worry about how the cancer will affect their family now and in the future.
Sometimes the strength of these emotions may make the person feel isolated and frightened and withdraw from family and friends. It can help to talk to someone about these feelings.
Some people find great comfort in religion at this time and it may help for them to talk to a local minister, hospital chaplain or other religious leader. If you do not feel that this is the right sort of support for you, talking with family and friends, a counsellor or someone from a cancer support organisation may help.